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5 Reasons to Retire to San Miguel de Allende

Condé Nast Traveler recently named San Miguel de Allende, México, the winner of this year’s reader poll to select The World’s Best City To Live In.  Last year the winner was Charleston, S. C., and this year Paris came in at #22. Impressive, and perhaps a bit surprising, considering the competition, but it does suggest San Miguel has some first class things to offer.

While the piece doesn’t volunteer to share the reasons for its readers’ rankings, it’s easy to guess what some of them might be: a prodigious and historic colonial charm, moderate and sunny climate, low cost of living, relative absence of dense traffic, great cultural resources, low crime rate, and overall superior quality of life.

In short, the usual suspects when people start to think about where they might head next after deserting Newark or Detroit. I’m not going to argue with it, since I’ve lived in San Miguel myself for the past six years, and while I do occasionally long for Paris or Florence, those yearnings haven’t prompted me to put my house on the market.

One effect the Condé Nast piece did have on me was to make me think about some reasons for this popularity that I knew were almost certainly not on that undisclosed list.

Number one would be Cultural Differences. This town does not possess the smooth social fabric of central Iowa, and while it is small enough at 75,000 so that many people know each other, and even more look familiar, it is not a melting pot where everyone is merging into a seamlessly blended culture. The Méxican community and the expat community, largely U.S. and Canadian, struggle a bit to understand each other’s values and way of life. It is difficult to mistake members of one community for those of the other. In short, we know who we are. Because it is a dynamic system, we must work a little, and sometimes more than a little, to understand each other. If this keeps us slightly off balance, that’s a good thing. It makes for good muscle tone and mental agility as we get older. Which brings us to the second point.

Paper Flowers

Photo By Sergio Dávila

Number Two would be Respect for Elders. San Miguel, and the rest of México, is not a place where cutting edge equates to this morning’s newest trend. The calendar operates in fits and starts, and as a result, it is still 1950 in many areas here. I spent part of the past week in Zacatecas, where I decided it was just about coming up on 1973. We are not rushing here to overtake the latest fad, so if you are not extremely young, you still have a chance of being at least somewhat current, since the values of those around you are not so fluid as to make yours seem irrelevant and old fashioned. We are more connected over the generations, and it feels good. Even people of advanced age are not segregated, and most families consist of very young children, parents, grandparents and great grandparents all spending time together to their mutual benefit.

Older people are in general regarded as retaining the wisdom of their experience, and therefore deserving of respect. In a hierarchical society, age is an underpinning of the consistency of values, and a source of continuity in attitude.

For number three, I would suggest what I call The Carnival of Color. While some businesses have branches and satellites, this is not in general a country hospitable to franchises. As a result, you are likely to see behind the counter of your bakery or cleaners the man or woman whose idea it was to start that business, a person who recognizes you and maintains his or her standard of product or service as a matter of pride, since commerce is personal. I can think of many restaurants where the owner greets you at the door and passes your table as you’re eating.

Jardin in San Miguel

Jardin in San Miguel, Photo By Simon Hallett

While there are government-planned housing tracts (infonavits) in most large towns that have a cookie-cutter feel, generally the housing is distinct and individual, using a wide variety of colors and materials. The commercial streets do not exhibit chains of strip malls, and the architecture is not inhuman and fortress-like. We do not like to be mistaken for each other, and hospitality is an established part of public behavior. The need for uniqueness each of us feels is unquestioned. Exuberance is valued over reticence in design. It’s OK to reproduce the Virgin of Guadalupe on the hood of your 1993 Dodge. Shades of beige, however, are not easily distinguished this far south of the border.

Number Four I will call the Méxican Dynamic. For expats, it is impossible not to compare this country with the one we left, if only to reassure ourselves that we have given up easy access to chocolate chips and kosher dills for sufficient reason.

This country, while older than the U.S., is still on an upward curve in its economic development. The middle class is growing here, even as the middle class in the U.S. is shrinking. México is still creating jobs, since it dodged the worst effects of the current recession in the U.S. While, like the U.S., it is not a democracy in any true sense, its political life has been dominated by one party for most of the last century. While this has led to corruption and favoritism, more importantly, it has not convulsed the country in rancor and deadlock. Oddly, things can still be accomplished here at the government level. People in this country do not take politics so seriously. There is a healthy cynicism about what happens in México City that Americans could examine more closely, since Méxicans are not as easily fooled by the rant of political parties on either side.The country functions more like Italy, where the government is simply not regarded as a serious player in the arena of national life, and its periodic fall is often appropriately greeted with a yawn.

Ole-Ole in San Miguel

Ole-Ole in San Miguel, Photo By Simon Hallett

Lastly comes number five, and my personal favorite. On an individual level, it’s the most important. San Miguel, and indeed México as a whole, is a place where expats can come down and reinvent themselves. Perhaps that’s because they are obviously not part of the mainstream culture, and some (but not all) of the rules don’t apply. This is an underlying theme I have written about before and will again. Moving here is a Release into Freedom at any age. It is a place with reduced or even absent expectations of what you might do or how you’ll behave. If you were a nun in your working life north of the border, you can be naughty down here without apologizing or blushing. If you were a plumber in Peoria, you can now be a photographer, a painter of portraits, or a poet. You can do nothing or everything. You can justify your prior life or simply forget it.The sidewalk outside your door is labeled, in a script only you can see, Step One. Above all, you can pull things from the subterranean layers of your mind, and as they emerge into daylight for the first time, you will need to apologize or explain them to no one.

This is the charm of San Miguel, and indeed, of all of México.

an Miguel de Allende: A Place in the HeartJohn Scherber, a Minnesota native, settled in Mexico in 2007. He is the author of ten Paul Zacher mysteries (The Murder in Mexico series), set in the old colonial hill town of San Miguel de Allende, named a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 2008. In addition, two volumes of the Townshend Vampire Trilogy have appeared, as well as his award-winning nonfiction account of the expatriate experience, San Miguel de Allende: A Place in the Heart.  For more information go to, www.sanmiguelallendebooks.com

12 Responses

  1. Sandee Beaman

    I have read so much about San Miguel over the last few years, but this article by John Scherber captures San Miguel more than any other piece I have read! Just fabulous and all so true. We are fortunate to get to spend some time in San Miguel this winter, and to us, it is a place of wonder, joy, enchantment, relaxation, and a place to discover, enjoy, walk, explore, sit in the jardin, people watch, read, and take part in so many festivities, listen to music, take incredible photograps, eat great food, and talk to incredibly friendly people! No wonder San Miguel ranked #1. In fact, I love that San Miguel ranked #1 over so many other cities people dream of visiting. Thank you again for this fabulous article!

  2. Susan Jonvik

    The best reason that nobody seems to mention, in my view, is the location – NOT on the coast and a bit difficult to get to. Because it is not a beach resort with a revolving stream of week-long holidaying crowd, it is much easier to get to meet and engage with both locals and expats.

  3. Exactly! One of the things I love most about Mexico in general is #2 on this list — respect for elders. And I also enjoy that feeling of being able to go back in time. This last struck me one Saturday in the main plaza in Guanajuato, listening to a brass band playing in the bandstand and talking to locals in the shade of whitewashed trees (a custom we had in small KY towns for several years back in the 50s). Thomas Wolfe said that “you can’t go home again,” but I feel that I do every time I arrive in a Mexican town. Odd that a foreign place could instantly feel like home, specifically the “home” of my childhood.

  4. babsofsanmiguel

    Beautifully and succinctly written. You touched on subjects that I’ve thought but never verbalized. Having been involved in Mexico for 40 years, first for business, then moving here 13 years ago, I continue to revel in the surrealism.

  5. Sarah Morison

    I have been to San Miguel several times and am looking forward to spending three months there next winter. It’s nice to read something that isn’t a criticism of “all the old gringos” there, or a put-down of the expatriate presence by those longing for a “purer” Mexican experience. I like San Miguel in part BECAUSE it is a mixture of cultures, where we can all learn from and give to each other, not because the presence of other Americans makes me more comfortable.

    1. Well said, Sarah. My book on the expat experience here, San Miguel de Allende: A Place int the Heart, reveals how many different ways there are to come at this town–certainly more than I expected when I started to write it.

      1. Sarah Morison

        I bought your book (Kindle version) after reading your article, and look forward to it. My trip next winter is the beginning of figuring out whether I (and two friends) can happily make a go of it there. Decluttering my life and brushing up on my Spanish until then …

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